Taking Full Responsibility - Change Your Life

Get rid of "should" and "have to".  Do What You Want.

Does that sound like responsible advice?

I'm afraid that's what you must do to take full responsibility for your life.  Notice that I didn't say do what you  feel like doing.  You may not feel like going to the grocery store this afternoon but want to because you want to eat.

This is not just semantics.  Anytime we use the words "should" or "have to" we are shirking responsibility.  We are saying either we have no choice or that we're trying to live up to someone else's idea of what we should do with our lives.  Having no choice is a lie and living to someone else's expectations is a sad mistake.

Look closely at your life.  What pressures do you feel to do something or be somewhere?  Why?  Is it because you want to?  If not, look deeper.

There is nowhere we must be and nothing we must do if we are taking full responsibility for our actions.

If you still feel pressure to do something then at least admit to yourself - I want to do this because I don't have the strength to say no or to let 'so and so' down.  Be honest with yourself and remove your excuses.  You will find your attitude will change drastically and you might even muster the courage to say no a little more often. 

Try a little soul searching to find what you want in life,  then do the things that will bring it about.

Identify the things that you don't want to do and stop doing them.

This is not an exercise for the faint of heart.  Don't even waste your time if you're not willing to go deep and work with it.  .

With a little lot of work and effort in learning to DO WHAT YOU WANT, your life will change dramatically.  I promise you that your life will improve if you work at this.  You will have more energy, more passion, and more peace.  If you want one on one help with changing your life, feel free to contact me at dgarner23@gmail.com

Using this method and a few of the following ideas can turn your life around:

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Learning to Live In the Present Moment

Six Steps for Building Strength

Thoughts + Energy = Your Reality

Because I feel so strongly about this - because I see so many that feel powerless in life - I am asking you to share a link to this article if you like it.  Tweet it, Facebook it, Pin it, email a line,  or all of the above.  This approach has brought so much change, meaning, and peace to my life in such a short amount of time that I want to share it with as many others as I can.  Although I'd rather you link here - steal it if you prefer - just spread the word.

I found this method and other great ideas in Supercoach: 10 Secrets to Transform Anyone's Life by Michael Neill

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